my friend and i had our daily dose of chikahan over ym. chikahan about anything. although its paulit ulit lang, its still refreshing. kasi kahit araw araw kame magkachat, palaging merong bago kameng napaguusapan. we were talking about judgements and friendship.
MJ (10/12/2008 11:05:31 PM): nakaka lungkot pag naging judger ang isang tao
MJ (10/12/2008 11:05:37 PM): kase ibig sabihin lang naman nun
MJ (10/12/2008 11:05:43 PM): either makitid utak
MJ (10/12/2008 11:05:47 PM): or kulang ang alam
tama nga naman diba. its just sad when you judge someone without knowing or hearing out the explanation.cguro may explanation behind it or may certain reason why a person acts a certain way. you dont understand a person, kasi kulang ang alam mo. and ang tolerance mo is not that high, siguro kasi makitid ang utak mo. exchange of thoughts lang naman between us. sayang lang kasi. siguro nga. dapat bawas bawasan talaga ang judgement sa isang tao, lalo na kung di mo naman kilala ung person na un.
pero shempre, between friends, dapat walang judgement at all. sabi nga ni blair kay serena " what u did, we did... we are the non judgemental breakfast club". (something in that context). Diba, dapat lang naman tga between friends, dapat may understanding na na dapat wag kang magjudge. pero shempre, nandun ung comment commentan. hello mga ate, di naman naiiwasan un. and dapat ang tolerance level mo, bonggang bongga.
so note to self: bawasan ang pagjajudge. so, eof (end of friendship) pa ba kay certain friend? hmmm
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